while also gaining clarity and hope, to get back out there and find a healthy, lasting godly relationship.
So I’ll spare you the spiel, sister.
No need to be a broken record and convince you of something that you are more than likely already aware of.
After all, you probably KNOW that seeking deeper healing, finding community, and having a cheerleader to help you through the process will allow you to experience freedom from rejection, reclaim your worth, and feel more confident than ever.
...about dating and heartbreak.
Just about ALL of us endure a level of rejection at some point in our lives. It can seem hopeless and defeating. It can feel like NO one understands what you are going through… but let me just give you a small dose of encouragement:
Too often we feel alone and isolated in this process. It can really feel like no one gets what we are going through. Sister, let me just tell you there IS a community of women who GET IT and who are in the boat with you. Realizing that we are seen, understood, and have a support team of cheerleaders can deeply impact how we are able to press through victoriously.
Perhaps at your lowest moments you’ve really tried your hardest to heal.
You’ve started on the journey of processing the grief. You’ve journaled, unfollowed and gotten rid of everything about your ex, had multiple girls nights, read a new inspiring book, and even constantly prayed (or cried) to God.
Maybe you were really committed and even sought mentorship, therapy, or booked yourself a last minute trip to get away from it all.
However, even with the best intentions, most people on the journey to healing get held up on something and end up abandoning the process. This could be allowing the lies of worthlessness, insecurities, or the overall fears of the future swoop back in while on your journey.
Here is why most on the journey to healing from heartbreak and rejection abandon the process:
Without a super clear, step-by-step healing plan, most wounded and heartbroken women get stuck or lost.
They fall victim to the process not being as short as they expected. They have a run in with an ex and it completely throws them off. They have a few bad days after coming so far and start feeling discouraged that it will really never get any better. They try to go out on other dates only to realize it makes them feel worse. They start feeling like they don’t have clarity in their dating life at all.
This is why this is so irreversibly crippling.
As a valuable and wonderful woman that desires marriage one day, healing from heartbreak and re-claiming self-love, worth, and hope are non-negotiables if you actually want to obtain your hearts desires.
The moment you succumb to weariness and give up on healing from heartbreak or rejection, it becomes so much more difficult to recover from.
Therefore, seeking a true process to healing, reclaiming love, and finding hope are the things you NEED TO GET RIGHT NOW to set yourself up for a thriving-filled life and one day. . . a healthy marriage.
Lucky for you, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! There are so many women who have been in your exact shoes. Even if you can’t see them right now, they are there. They can also be reading this right now, longing for the same desire to be seen, understood, and supported.
So even if you’ve been discouraged in the past, have given up on the process of healing (or dating in general), or even if right now you are unsure of your worth and value or the fact that you will ever find someone to be happy with...
I just want to say that there is STILL such a golden opportunity for you to jump into this! Clean up the mess of the past and find a brand new renewed vision for your future!
Sister, I hear this. I have felt a lack in ALL of these areas. Just let me encourage you with this: You can find a way to reclaim self love. You CAN re-discover your worth. You can re-establish value. You can take BACK your power and claim what is true about yourself and how God so beautifully and intricately designed you!
You might feel stuck, like there is no way truly out of this… and I get it because healing from heartbreak can feel like grieving the death of someone important to you… and that is SO incredibly tough. Nonetheless, I wholeheartedly believe that we must feel the pain to HEAL the pain. Let me tell you what, there IS a powerful process to healing that will truly help you to re-claim HOPE and deeply transform your mind. This time we aren’t just saying we are going to move on, we are going to DO the work of moving on.
Feeling rejected or heartbroken, especially more than once, creates an expected layer of fear. However, just because it might be there, does not mean we have to welcome it stay. You have to hear this: through deep healing and processing, you can unroot the fear and plant seeds of HOPE. You can actually get excited about your life as a single as you thrive in your current season. Eventually, one day when the fog has cleared and you are ready to take the plunge back in, you can reach a point of being excited about dating again… after all, dating can actually be FUN (you might not believe me yet but you will!).
It’s so easy to blame ourselves. Or think about all the things that “could have” or “should have” been done differently. Friend, those words need to be removed from your vocabulary. While yes there is always something great to learn from every experience, playing the self-blame game or ruminating on the “what if’s” will only cause you to downward spiral. Instead, the WHAT to do to move forward is the most powerful and transformative thing you can do to move on. Together we will journey down that path victoriously.
I know it can seem like a lot of people don’t really get it, but sister I do. You are not alone. I have been through countless heartbreaks including anywhere from relationships of abuse, infidelity, manipulation, lying, to even healthy, fall to your knees romantic, loving relationships. I get it, and sister I get YOU. More importantly, GOD gets you and has never left or forsaken you. However let’s not even stop there! Through this program you will have a COMMUNITY of women at your side encouraging you. They have been through it, too. You may have felt alone before, but you don’t have to now.
Even though it seems daunting...Even though it will take work...Even if you’ve failed before. I am telling you, there is a way OUT. You CAN fully move on. There is a path to finding healing, reclaiming love, and embracing HOPE.
There is a huge likelihood that you haven’t had all the tools you needed to get to point of freedom from the pains of rejection. But that’s why I am so glad you’re here right now… because those tools DO exist!
There also might be the chance that you’ve been stuck in feelings of unworthiness, not feeling chosen, or being unlovable because someone unexpectedly left you, or mistreated you terribly. My heart breaks for you sister, because I have been there. And because of that I also know it is also MORE than possible to reverse these mindsets and rewire your mind for love.
Even if fear has stood in your way before, it doesn’t have to anymore. This is your time. This is your breakthrough moment. This is where you say goodbye to the chains of heartbreak and rejection and instead claim profound freedom and VICTORY for your future.
The secret sauce to discovering ALL of this is to heal your heart through a proven process and get back out there on a first date.
And with your permission, that’s what I’d be HONORED to walk you through!
“It WAS the most helpful thing I did to work through my last breakup AND some major baggage from my past that I didn't even know I was still carrying around! Kait, thank you so much for sharing your story, experience and heart with us! I can't even express how much you've helped me but I will say that you're program has given me so much hope and healing."
JOANIE, 34, OREGON
Introducing
Sister, I have been THROUGH IT ALL when it comes to heartbreak. On one end I have been through abuse, infidelity, manipulation, lying and endless confusion. On the other end, I have experienced healthy dating, fall to your knees romance, and extremely loving relationships.
I have been left dumbfounded, deeply hurt, and confused after breakups. I have gotten to a point of losing my sense of self-love. I have felt crazy and worthless. I have doubted that I would ever find the love I desired. I have experienced crippling fear worrying that a new guy would be the same as the last. Oh girlfriend, do I ever get it...
I have also had many failed attempts of healing. I have tried dating again only to end up in the same traps as before.
After nonstop dating for 10 years and ending up in incredibly abusive relationship, I hit my lowest of lows. When I finally got enough courage to leave my abusive relationship I felt loveless, helpless, worthless, and completely ashamed. I had finally reached a point where I knew my life couldn’t stay the same. I couldn’t bear to live like this anymore.
Finally enough was enough.
So, I went on a journey to seek out EVERY possible form of healing, self-love, and every mind, body, and spirit renewal I could find. I spent thousands of dollars on therapy, self-help programs, conferences, and coaching. I read countless books, listened to sermons, podcasts, talked with mentors and sought counsel from people with similar experiences.Eventually, I got to a beautiful place of freedom from the ties of heartbreak. I became so strong that when any form of new rejection came along, it might prick me, but it wouldn’t dare take me down. It was a long process, but my heart wholly healed. My journey to becoming a wholehearted woman had proven rewarding like no other. So sis, I’ve taken everything I have learned from experiencing just about every heartbreak and healing scenario, and channelled it into a comprehensive, step-by-step process of healing, embracing self-love, and finding a renewed HOPE.
The Heartbreak To First Date Program is NOT a program that will lead you to temporary healing Instead, it’s a pathway and a process to true, transformative healing and self-discovery as you remain rooted in your faith and feel stronger in worth and value than ever before.
And, you’ll have me by your side walking you through each step of the journey. Well actually, not even just me, you will also have FELLOW SISTERS who also know what it’s like to be in your shoes who will be walking alongside of you as well. Talk about being SEEN, am I right?
The end result: Freedom from the hurt of heartbreak and overcoming the fear of dating, practical tools and a process to truly heal and help you continue to heal, a renewed confidence and sense of worth and value, and a lasting source of HOPE and excitement for your single life as you are supported by incredible women who are walking alongside you and want nothing more than to see you succeed.
Heartbreak To First Date
Is the first program of its kind to….
Deeply help you restore love, confidence, and hope. It’s a program to remove FEAR so you can get back out there.
Sister, this is my ultimate goal. And I am SO confident you will be able to experience these things even in the face of extreme heartbreak, because I HAVE. I won’t lie to you, it’s not easy. Planting NEW, deep roots means you’ll have to get your hands dirty and get IN THERE. However, I promise you, it’s possible and SO worth it.
Provide thorough and manageable ways to TRULY transform and HEAL.
We are talking practical! Biblically, spiritually, mentally… we go ALL in! This is about an entire mind and heart transformation. This time we aren’t just saying that we are going to move on, we are going to DO the actual work of moving on. At the same time, I won’t be giving you any unnecessary strategies that look good in theory but are impossible to implement. We are keeping it manageable with practices and processes that you can actually get excited about implementing into your life.
Make you feel more SEEN and SUPPORTED than ever.
Those isolating feelings that make you feel like no one gets you will immediately be thrown out the door. Throughout this process, you will be supported with resources, prayers, teachings, AND a group of like-minded women who are in the boat with you. Not to mention, I will be your cheerleader <pom poms on + Celine Dion music blaring> all set and ready to empower you through this journey every step of the way.
So if you’re ready to finally do the work to MOVE ON from rejection and find HOPE for your future without feeling worthless, fearful, stuck, or isolated, then sis you couldn’t be in a better place!
Here's how I will gladly help you get there:
In order to HEAL from the pain we have to be willing to FEEL the pain. But sometimes, we don’t even really know where to start. In this lesson you will learn how to embrace and come to terms with the disappointment of heartbreak, understand how to specifically navigate the stages of grief, and develop your own grieving plan. You will also come to recognizing all of the things that are holding you up from truly finding healing. This lesson is all about jump-starting the journey of healing towards finding purpose in the pain of heartbreak and freedom from its hold on you.
Module Highlights:
Now that you understand how to deal with disappointment and have a process to healthily grieve, you will move on to REFLECTING and RECKONING with the past so that you can better prepare and avoid these tendencies in the future. You will also start the process of truly transforming your mind and learning how to become more aware of triggers. The goal of this session is for you to feel freedom from toxic thoughts, fears, and anxieties as well as becoming aware of your own personal triggers so that you can trust again and MOVE ON healthily.
Module Highlights:
Now that you have DONE THE WORK (go you!) of taking ownership and begun to truly transform your mind, we need to dive into confidence and self-love. It’s true that we “accept the love we think we deserve” and because of that, before receiving love from another person, we have to learn how to be confident and love ourselves. In this session you will learn how to build back love for yourself, find practical ways to understand God’s love, embrace self-care, re-discover confidence, and start LOVING your single life. This session is all about finding a deep, lasting self-love and confidence which are KEY ingredients to wholehearted living.
Module Highlights:
Now that you have gained confidence, learned how to re-establish self love, and begun to embrace your current season, we need to remove any final layers of fear all while staying steadfastly resilient in the future. The goal here is to face the truth of rejection and become prepared and strong enough to face it in the future. Rejection is not something we can fully avoid in life, so I want you to be fully confident and prepared for any future rejection (big or small). With your new found strength, rejection may prick you but it will NOT take you down. You will also learn how to set healthy and practical boundaries with exes that will help you on your journey of truly MOVING ON quickly should you ever face heartbreak again.
Module Highlights:
In the final step of this journey we are going to establish a renewed HOPE for the future as well as a strategic vision for your dating life moving forward. Together, we will walk through and learn about what you should really be looking for. Overall, it will give you clarity and vision around your spiritual life, single life, and dating life. You will feel READY to get back in the game with a plan and a vision that you are confident about! Can you say FREEDOM and EXCITEMENT?!
Module Highlights:
Let me say this upfront,
The Heartbreak To First Date Program is the most comprehensive, step-by-step program for women going through heartbreak, struggling with rejection or who simply desire a freedom from fear. It’s a process for healing that works by giving you a renewed sense of self and a firm HOPE for the future.
This community will make you feel uplifted, seen, understood, and empowered. You will meet other like minded women in your shoes. And you will have ME as your coach, cheerleader, and friend.
Now here’s the kicker.
By the end of 30 days, you’ll have experienced the first 4 modules, the intro module, and LIVE Q&A’s. You’ll have had quality time with me, AND have met other incredible women who are in your shoes (hello instant new besties). You’ll also have received the corresponding workbooks for those weeks and be actively making strides to beginning the process of becoming a wholehearted, healed woman.
If you don’t feel totally confident and motivated by the change you see and what you are learning with me by your side as your cheerleader, you can feel free to reach out to me directly at [email protected]. Show me that you’ve put in the work and I will personally refund your investment.
The Heartbreak to First Date Program, (A $597 Value)
BONUS #1: The Ultimate Dating Essentials Guide ($19.99 Value)
BONUS #2: When To Date Again Assessment ($29.99 Value)
BONUS #3: Access to a Private, Members Only Facebook Community for Accountability + Support ($147)Total Value: $994
When you add it all up, that’s a value of $1166, y'all!
1 Payment of
3 Payments of
The questions my most committed students want to know before joining the Heartbreak to First Date program:
Upon signing up for Heartbreak to First Date, you will received a welcome email as well as immediate access to the program and all modules in My Kajabi. *Your My Kajabi login is the login you used to purchase the program.
From here, you can start diving into the program instantly!
However, one of the best parts about doing this program is being able to do it alongside fellow sisters who are also in need of healing.
Starting the week of April 13th, we will begin going through the program together at the page of 1 module per week. I recommend having already completed the introduction module at that point. From then on, we will meet virtually in FB and discuss each module of the program. I will do weekly LIVE videos in our private community answering all of your questions as well.
If you fall behind or even want to go ahead, no worries... you will have access to the content for as long as I run this program (which will be for a long time!).
To be honest, I love this question. As a self-made entrepreneur, who built my business, trust me when I tell you that I too, am on a budget girlfriend!! I will tell you this, we invest in the things that are truly important to us. We invest in Netflix, gym memberships, and in buying fancy coffee…. So what does that really say? Or we can invest in buying rad gifts for the people that mean something to us, which is great, but what about investing in you? It’s so fascinating how we can do so much for others yet question investing into the true livelihood of our own futures. Let me put it into perspective: joining this program would mean taking just one month off of going to a fancy coffee shop every day. Just one month. Investing in yourself is a declaration that you know you are worth it. Healing your heart and being made new again is priceless compared to living in continued fear, prolonged pain, and a lack of confidence. Girlfriend, your heart is too precious. I don’t have to tell you that, because the Bible does. I just want you to see that investing in restoring that beautiful heart of yours is more than worth it. This is also why I created the affordable payment plan option. You’ve got this! I believe in you and am here with you!
Sis, that would be incredible, but I also have to tell you this, the healing process is not linear. In fact, it is anything but. As for most things in our life, we are always going to be consistent works of progress. If it’s done with endurance, precision, care, and attention (and a whole bunch of grace and love), this program will catapult you into your journey and make you SO much stronger. However, the only person that can really determine if that is the case is you. This is all about how much work and effort you put into this. I cannot take this seriously for you. I cannot do the work for you. I cannot encourage you to continue these practices after the 6 weeks are over… you have to make these decisions for yourself… but do you want to know the best part? I fully believe you are capable of this!!!
I know it seems like we never have enough time... but all I have to say is: if BEYONCE has the same number of hours in a day as YOU, you have the time!
I am a busy bee, just like you. I juggle a million things and sometimes I find myself halfway through the day wearing my underwear totally inside out (whoops!).
All that being said, I would recommend carving out 2 hours a week for this (3 would be even better). 1 hour for each the lessons under each module, and another 1-2 hours for the weekly Q&A’s, journaling, and interacting with the other gals in the FB group.
My hope is that the time flies because it feels like we are hanging out as you get solid work done and see the progress. I am just so excited for the transformation God has for you through this!
Let me say this upfront...
The Heartbreak to First Date Program is the step-by-step process that not only shows you exactly how to become a confident, healed woman after heartbreak but also gives you clarity and hope to get back out there to find a healthy, lasting, and godly relationship.
This community will make you feel uplifted, seen, understood, and empowered. You will meet other like-minded women in your shoes, and you will have me as your coach, cheerleader, and friend.
Now here’s the kicker.
By the end of 30 days, you’ll have experienced the first 4 modules, the intro module, and LIVE Q&A’s. You’ll have had quality time with me, and you'll have met other incredible women who are in your shoes (hello instant new besties). You’ll also have received the corresponding workbooks for those weeks and be actively making strides to beginning the process of becoming a wholehearted, healed woman.
If you don’t feel totally confident and motivated by the change you see or with what you are learning with me, you can feel free to reach out to me directly at [email protected]. Show me that you’ve put in the WORK and I will personally refund your investment.
GREAT QUESTION! The private FB Group will run for 6 weeks during the program. After that, you will be added to a larger Heartbreak to First Date Master Facebook Group that includes everyone from past programs.
As such, you can continue to have conversations with women in your boat even AFTER the 6 weeks are over (in fact, I hope you WILL do that!)
Other than that, you will have access to the program in My Kajabi for as long as I am teaching it (which is hopefully going to be a VERY long time!)
You can re-watch the videos, re-do the workbook assignments, and continue to look back at the conversations from our time in the program. I’m so excited for these teachings to continue blessing you over and over.
Sure thing, girly!
HTFD PROGRAM
The Heartbreak to First Date Program, ($597 Value)
BONUS #1: The Ultimate Dating Essentials Guide ($19.99 Value)
BONUS #2: When To Date Again Assessment ($29.99 Value)
BONUS #3: Access to a Private, Members Only Facebook Community for Accountability + Support ($147)Total Value: $994
BONUS #4: Weekly LIVE Q+A Sessions with ME for further healing, support and pep-talks ($297)
When you add it all up, that’s a VALUE of $1091, y'all!
But when you enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just:
3 payments of $79
or
1 payment of $197
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